How can we ensure we are ‘fit’ for the 2020’s especially as the beginning of this year hasn’t gone to any plan? More than ever before we have to be more than just flexible – we have to be ‘fluxible’© . We have to ensure that everything is in flow and we have to start to think about, and find things, that make us feel better about ourselves, others around us, our life and the world we live in.
To be able to create a fresh, positive vision for who you are and who you want to be, will enable you to find new and inspiring ways of being confident and optimistic. We have to start to write our own good news stories rather than hang on to the negative stories that we sometimes find ourselves sharing. To begin our stories for the now and next, we have to create some quiet time to be able to ask yourself ‘am I OK?’ Whatever your response to this question, be mindful of the story you are telling yourself. If you are OK then how do you continue to be your own hero and motivate yourself to keep striving and thriving and embracing the wholeness of who you are? If you are not OK then how will you find out about what you really want in your life and then go out and get it? Being able to believe that you can is the start of exploring what actions you can then take. Knowing that we have unique skills, talent and qualities that enable us to be self-motivated can help us manage ourselves in more kind and human way.
We are all able to be our own hero – we just have to trust that we know what the right thing is for us to do. Success is something that you can achieve and to be able to live an abundant life is within your control. Don’t wait for someone else to calibrate your life – create your own way of how you want the world to see you. Control the bits that you can control and focus on creating rituals, time and habits that you know will serve you well. You can create your own future. Each day have a clear idea and vision of what it is you want to focus on and then do it. If you start to doubt yourself or put blockers in your way – stop – and ask yourself – ‘in this moment, what can and will I do first?’ Then do it!
To create an existence of being human kind is within your gift to devise and deliver. Take the lead in your life and be the person you want to be. Be your own best friend and avid supporter and move forward with vision and resilience and learning. We, at wishfish care deeply about you making the right decision for you. So if you are ready to take that next step to understand more – then give Gail a call on 07496328745 or drop her an email on firstname.lastname@example.org to arrange an initial chat with one of our wishfish coaches